Tuesday, September 10, 2013

What you are Unprepared For

What do you do with the book you find;
given to Elijah from Nana on the event of Clarissa's birth?
For a moment your heart skips. . .and you are brought back to that day.
You can hear the sounds.
You can hear your moms voice.
You can see your sons excitement over a present.
He loved books.
Now they both call heaven their home.
Only 7 months apart.
And the ache is deep.
I am still mourning my mom. . .
And now I grieve the loss of our son. . .

Today was a tough day.
I miss my boy.
Yet it was beautiful out.
And I went for a walk.
 And I met a friend on her way home from work and she stopped. She understood.
 She gave me a hug and went on her way.
Sometimes all we need is a hug and a word of reassurance.
My journey needs to continue.
God left me here.
He didn't call me home.
My work is not done.

Ephesians 2:10
For we are God's handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works, 
which God prepared in advance for us to do.

I find myself drawn to Elijah's grave.
I don't know why.
He's not there. 
But it is quiet. 
And I read my bible.

I read in I Chronicles about David having the Levites bring the ark back. David inquired of the LORD how it was to be done.
 I am asking the LORD, how does this grieving happen?
How do we do this?

I Chronicles 16:10, says, 
" Glory in his holy name; let the hearts of those who seek the LORD rejoice. Look to the LORD and his strength; seek his face always. Remember the wonders he has done, his miracles and the judgments he pronounced. 

Matthew 5:4
Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted.

Ecclesiastes 3:1 - 4
There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the sun: a time to be born and a tine to die. . .a time to weep and a time to laugh, a time to mourn and a time to dance. 

I know I need to trust with all my heart. 
I need to be open to God's healing. And I need to remain in his word. 
I will continue to do these things.
"Whatever may pass and whatever lies before me,
( 3 beats Elijah played. . .and I long to hear)
let me be singing when the evening comes."

LORD, I want to be singing when the evening comes.
I want to see all your goodness.
And I long to serve you with  all I am.

Psalm 90:4
For a thousand years in your sight are like a day that has just gone by, 
or like a watch in the night. 


  1. Amen Amen. whew.
    Love, A & N

  2. I know you shared all of your love with Elijah and left nothing unsaid. Aside from the line in this song that suggests regret for feelings not shared, I think this song is very fitting. I hope it provides you with some comfort. Thinking and praying for you and your family each and every day.
    With love,

  3. Oops! Here's the link http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P7IbQyG9PL4

    1. Oh,my..Tammy...there are so many moments like this...think you're doing better, and then something comes up behind you and smacks you right across the face! These are tough times...but God is still faithful and He is good...not because of what He does, but because of who He is. Many blessings to you and your family...
      Sheri :-)

    2. Molly, my girls are putting together a dance for that song. It is beautiful. They may be performing it Oct 5 at the Vermont Youth Dancers benefit for the Memorial Fund at the High School. Thank you